Friday, September 22, 2006

The Ryder Cup



The Ryder Cup kicks off this morning from the K Club in Ireland.

This for me is one of the most nail biting sporting events in the calendar. We will be watching it with eager anticipation this weekend especially the final ‘singles’ day on Sunday, which is always a real rollercoaster.

Europe have dominated in recent years...let's hope that trend continues!

Sunday, September 17, 2006

Connecting

Great time in church this morning. Paul Benger brought an encouraging message concerning the new season for our Connect Groups in church and spoke on the purposes of connecting.

Ezekiel 37:1-10

Connect groups are all about...

Connecting people to God
Connecting people to people
Connecting people to church

There is much disconnection in our world. Nation against nation. Breakdown in relationships, marriages etc.

The need to connect is essential in our world. We were created for interaction.
Concerning the ‘valley’ in Ezekiel 37, disconnection causes dryness. Sometimes we go through the valley experience – during these times we need to stay connected.
God’s mandate for us is to be connected. He is bringing us together again at this time. The bones are coming together, becoming strong again. God is shaping us into an army.

Genesis 2:18And the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion who will help him."
Hebrews 10:25And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
John 17:20-21(20) My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, (21) that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.

Three Purposes of Connection

FELLOWSHIP
It’s about sharing life together. Fellowship is something that is happening all of the time. Fellowship happens around Christ. Fellowship is also with one another. We become one, we become connected.
Romans 15:7So accept each other just as Christ has accepted you; then God will be glorified
Ephesians 4:2-3 - (2) Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other's faults because of your love. (3) Always keep yourselves united in the Holy Spirit, and bind yourselves together with peace.
1 Thessalonians 4:18 - So comfort and encourage each other with these words.
Choose your words wisely!
1 Thessalonians 5:11 - So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.
Inject courage, don’t suck it out of people i.e. discourage.

FRUITFULNESS
The power of synergy, of coming together - this results in fruitfulness.
Hebrews 10:24-25(24) And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, (25) not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.

It is important that we are ‘assembled’ and not just gathered. The bones in Ezekiel 37 were first gathered but it was when they were assembled that they became fruitful and an army again! This is our destiny as we do life together.

FAITH
The overriding attitude and spirit within our Connect groups should be one of faith and hope. Not to have a false environment, something that is unreal. But a genuine place of recognising the needs of people, where comfort and strength comes in the form of faith and belief.

Our Connect groups will have that culture of faith and hope. A place where faith is injected into people.

Monday, September 11, 2006

Thankful and Praiseful

Spoke yesterday in church about two things to be ‘full’ of – THANKFUL and PRAISEFUL, the keys to a healthy life.

Psalm 100

Be Thankful

1 Thessalonians 5:18 - “In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

Complaining seems to come naturally to almost everybody, in fact this can be the strongest addiction to break. Therefore God’s command to be thankful could appear to be unreasonably tough. However, if we read the verse as:
“It is God’s will that you be in Christ; therefore you can be thankful that He will work it out for good”, than it is no longer unreasonable and we can be released from trying to thank God for the difficult things that life can bring.

We don’t have to be thankful for the awful things that happen, BUT we can be constantly thankful that our lives are ‘in Christ’.

You can be imprisoned by your own murmuring, but Paul and Silas were broken out of their prison cell by their thankfulness (Acts 16)

How Can I be Thankful?

Make up your mind to live your best life today
Refuse to walk through life dragging the weight of yesterday. Don’t live in a future fantasy,“One day when…”
Psalm 16:5-6(5) LORD, you have assigned me my portion and my cup; you have made my lot secure. (6) The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance.

Love the ones you’re with
Friends are those who have journeyed with you. Love and honor those who are where God has put you. Disattisfied, grumpy, unthankful people often lose sight of the importance of good/loyal friendships.

Let the grace of gratitude be always on your lips

Be Praiseful

‘If I didn’t praise I would feel like I had a fire shut within me!’ (AW Tozer)

Praise is Powerful

Acts 16:23-26

Paul and Silas knew the secret of how to lift their hearts above their troubles and enter into God’s presence and power.

God loves your praise of him; so much so, that He says He inhabits (dwells in) the praises of His people

Praise is a Lifestyle

It’s a devotion of life

“...I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth” (Psalms 34:1)

Praise is a Sacrifice

...Something that we offer to God sacrificially, not just because we feel like it, but because we believe in Him and wish to please Him.

Hebrews 13:15 - Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise-the fruit of lips that confess his name.

Praise Sends the Enemy Running

Since praise manifests God’s presence, we also realise that praise pushes back the enemy, Satan.
2 Chron 20:20-24

Praise is about Music and much more

‘Why should the devil have all the good music?’ (Booth, SA)

2 Samuel 6 when the Bible comments on Michal, King David's wife, when she saw David dancing and rejoicing before the Lord - her heart was filled with contempt for him. And David's reply...Yes, I am willing to look even more foolish than this!

David loved God with a passion and zeal – his heart was for God and his house!

Psalm 40:3 - 'He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.’

David’s hearts desire was to worship God. He was effected in his spirit. It motivated him to song and frequently to dance. (He enjoyed God to the full). David was effected by everything around him as he wrote the psalms. In spite of his human frailties his heart’s desire was to praise.

Friday, August 25, 2006

Are you a price-savvy customer?


Mmmm....I love a great coffee.
But what kind of consumer am I?
How price-savvy are you? Read on.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

...except Caleb

Speaking this Sunday in church on the attitude or spirit of Caleb.

In particular one of the points of principle that Caleb spoke of as part of his ‘positive report’ that he brought back from the Promised Land.

Caleb and Joshua, told the people, Numbers 14:8-9 - "If the LORD delights in us, then He will bring us into this land and give it to us, ‘a land which flows with milk and honey.’ Only do not rebel against the LORD, nor fear the people of the land, for they are our bread; their protection has departed from them, and the LORD is with us. Do not fear them.”

Caleb looked at the challenges confronting Israel and declared: “They will be bread for us!”

If we look at the challenges we face in the right way, those challenges...

Instead of maiming us they can make us
Instead of destroying us they can develop us
Instead of finishing us they can feed us
Instead of limiting us they can lift us up to new levels

If there were ever a Bible character that displayed a right attitude or "different spirit" toward God and His Word, it was Caleb.

Numbers 14:24But my servant Caleb, because he has a different spirit and has followed me fully, I will bring into the land into which he went, and his descendants shall possess it!

Wholeheartedly!

Number 32:11-12(11) 'Because they have not followed me wholeheartedly, not one of the men twenty years old or more who came up out of Egypt will see the land I promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob - (12) not one except Caleb son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite and Joshua son of Nun, for they followed the LORD wholeheartedly.'

Sunday, August 13, 2006

A New Day

Great message in church this morning from Paul Benger. He spoke on having a ‘new wineskin spirit’.

Matthew 9:14-17

God is into new things. We may have a fantastic day, an incredible experience...but God moves on. We should move on. Don’t set up camp there...get stuck in the past.
Psalm 33:3 – ‘Sing a new song’.
Behold I do a new thing...God doesn’t do the ‘old’.
He gives us a new life...you must be ‘born again’.
We can look forward to a ‘new heaven’ and a ‘new earth’.
God has made a ‘new covenant’ through Jesus Christ.

He sometime gives people a new name (many examples in the Bible)
Stop giving OLD names to things. Stop seeing yourself as ‘useless’, ‘weak’, ‘rubbish’ – but ‘blessed’, ‘strong’. Let the weak say I am strong; let the poor say I am rich.

You need a new wineskin, need to oil it – to keep it supple. Anointing, the Holy Spirit. Be filled.

A new wineskin - new spirit, new attitude. That believes God, stands on his promises. Have a ‘youthful spirit’ – nothing to do with age. We can be old and have a youthful spirit. We can be young and have an old, senile spirit.
Be youthful – have a good attitude of heart, we can remain supple.

Things that happen when we get old (so he has been told!)
(But remember it’s nothing to do with age – but spirit and attitude)

Deafness – naturally we start to lose our hearing. Spiritually we can stop hearing the call of God, the call of faith. Keep our ears open to what God is saying.
Slowness – we may slow down in the natural but never let it happen in your spirit, in your attitude. Keep your new wineskin spirit.
Blurred Vision – even at a young age we can let our focus for the future become blurred. Keep your vision clear.
Routines – we get into our routines of doing things. Don’t let your spirit get into silly routines. eg - Bitterness, unforgiveness.
Weakness – as we get older naturally. But not in the spirit – grow stronger. Keep alive in your spirit.
Security – we ensure we get all our ‘policies’ up to date. We don’t want to take any risks. In our spirit – never stop taking risks!
Small World – this can be where we live as we get old. Let us not live here spiritually. Determine to stay out of a ‘small world’ mentality.
Brittleness – as we get older we find it easier to get down but much harder to get back up again. Let us never let our spirits, our attitudes become inflexible. Let us lose our brittle, inflexible attitudes.
Memories – we tend to have memories instead of dreams. ‘We liked it back then’. It’s ‘nice’ to have memories...but keep on dreaming!

Great word!

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Yorkshire Day


Today is Yorkshire Day, when men and women from across this historic county gather to celebrate their...well, Yorkshireness - leaving outsiders baffled about why they have such a high opinion of themselves....read on

Monday, July 31, 2006

Floundering or Flourishing?

Jeannie Benger spoke in church yesterday on staying out of the ruts and maintaining a life that flourishes and thrives.

God wants more for your life – do you? He only has good things for you.

Psalm 92:12-14(12) The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; (13) planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. (14) They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.

Get the revelation, it’s the difference between flourishing or floundering! Our relationships, careers, finances, health will all flourish.

How do we keep ourselves from floundering? How do we flourish? 4 keys:

Key 1 – Stay planted

Be planted in God’s house. Psalm 1:3 - He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.
We will prosper! Make sure your roots are secure, that they are planted correctly. We will bear fruit and thrive.

Key 2 – Stay connected to people

Proverbs 17:17A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity
Have and make great connections. When you’re floundering don’t disconnect yourself. True friends help us through tough times.
Also be careful who you connect with. Proverbs 13:20He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm
Connect with people who help us fulfil our destiny in God.

Key 3 – Stay focused on the result you want

Stay in faith. God will give you the confidence, even when all around is crumbling.
In the midst of persecution refuse to draw back. Trust in God and in His word. Man cannot live by bread alone but by every word that comes from God.
Faith helps us overcome any floundering.

Key 4 – Stay positive

Keep a right attitude. Don’t get cynical or critical when others are doing well. Rejoice with them. Guard your attitude. A poor attitude will result in us floundering and not flourishing. Change your future by your response to the present situation.

Monday, July 24, 2006

Lost in Translation

Paul Benger spoke yesterday in church on the subject of transformation by the Holy Spirit.

2 Corinthians 3:17-18(17) Now, the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, he gives freedom. (18) And all of us have had that veil removed so that we can be mirrors that brightly reflect the glory of the Lord. And as the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his glory even more.

God’s word is our mirror. How do we see ourselves? What we see can often get lost in translation.

All of us have the destiny of being transformed into the image of God’s son. It was determined, predestined.

It was always God’s plan to transform us right from the beginning of our lives.
So that through the church, Jesus Christ would rule/reign and influence every area of society. To permeate the world, not to be separated from it.

Jesus said he would build his church, and we are the instrument he has chosen to reach the world – this is something that often gets lost in translation. Some people think the church is just limping out, hanging on until Christ returns.

We are His body and we are to be like him, by being transformed by the Holy Spirit.

Four attitudes that we need to adopt to be transformed by the Holy Spirit:

1) Openness and honesty before God

Be real. Not wanting to be somebody else. He wants you to be you. He calls us the way we are, and yes He transforms us. Think of the potter/clay analogy. God can take a lump of lifeless raw material and make it into something beautiful.

2) Look into the mirror of God’s Word

James 1:22-25(22) And remember, it is a message to obey, not just to listen to. If you don't obey, you are only fooling yourself. (23) For if you just listen and don't obey, it is like looking at your face in a mirror but doing nothing to improve your appearance. (24) You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. (25) But if you keep looking steadily into God's perfect law--the law that sets you free--and if you do what it says and don't forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

Don’t just hear – do! When you look into the mirror and see you need a shave – shave!

When we look into the mirror, human behaviour often results in us either ignoring and pretending everything is ok or beating ourselves up because we don’t like what we see.

What we should see is...
Christ and the image we are growing into and what God is making us like. That we live on the right side of the cross - no longer condemned.
We truly find out what God thinks of us. He sees us after the cross, not as ‘lost’ but as ‘found’.

Look at Ephesians 1 and 2 and right down what God sees us as.

3) Realise that transformation by the Holy Spirit is step by step

Change doesn’t happen in a day. God will change us one step at a time. That’s how God grows us.

4) Realise transformation is a work of the Holy Spirit

Change comes by the Holy Spirit of God. We chose to walk by the Spirit or by the flesh. Set your minds on the things of the Spirit. Flick the switch.

God is the great transformer. He changes everything. Death to life, sickness to health, bitterness to faithfulness and so on!

Monday, July 17, 2006

Even the Dogs...

A great time in church yesterday, Paul Benger shared a message entitled ‘Even the Dogs’ taken from Mark 7:24-30.

Jesus needed a rest - the woman needed a miracle. She was desperate for her daughter to be healed.

Jesus didn’t respond to her desperation but to her faith.
Jesus is interested in the detail of our lives – He is the answer to our needs and desires. The woman knew this – that things could get better. God can make things better. She believed it. The supernatural can happen.

4 important truths about her faith that apply to us today:

Her faith was persistent
She kept asking. She knew what she wanted and stayed with it. Match your faith to your desire. Stay with it! Don’t be vague – know what you want.
Proverbs 16:3Commit your work to the Lord, and then your plans will succeed

Her faith was bold
Jesus was not being PC here, about the Jew/Gentile relationship. The woman brushed aside his comments with the phrase, ‘Even the dogs…’ She was bold.
She was passionate and was not going to be knocked back. ‘God will give you the desires of your heart.’ He will even plant them in your heart – desires for the future.
Her desire made her bold; her desperation made her bold.

Her faith had great self-esteem
She had a right view of God and a right view of herself. She believed she deserved it. We deserve it!
She could have got angry, she could have got faithless. “God won’t do it for me”, “He’ll do it for them but not for me”
NO – “I believe God will do it for me!”
Know that God is for us that God is with us.

She Believed!
She wouldn’t pull out of the argument. She believed the Word. Belief is linked to receiving. Faith is about believing something for the future. “It’s going to happen”.
What you believe about your life has a greater impact than what others believe about your life.

Sunday, July 09, 2006

The Scandal of Grace

Mark Wilkins spoke in church this morning on the Scandal of Grace. He used a scene from Godfather III where Don Corleone goes to Rome to negotiate a business deal with the Vatican. There in Rome he meets with Cardinal Lamberto, who asks if he would like to make his confession. At first Corleone refuses. He makes a little joke about how it would take too long. However, he wants the cardinal's help, and senses something redemptive in his presence. So Corleone begins his confession.

First he tells of his marital infidelities. Then he admits ordering the murder of his own brother. Overwhelmed by the burden of his guilt, he breaks down and starts to sob. Cardinal Lamberto pronounces the words of absolution, then says, "I know you don't believe this, but you have been redeemed."

Some may find this story scandalous, but, although only a story, this is probably what’s known as the ‘scandal of grace’.

Christ died so that ‘all’ may be redeemed, forgiven, know God’s mercy and grace.

We can know forgiveness from our past no matter who we are or what we’ve done. Some people find that hard to comprehend. In this world we’re hooked on the ‘scandal’ side of life.

As a church we’re going to see the scandalous…but where God’s grace needs to be lavished. We’ve received God’s grace and we need to pass it on...be ministers of grace.

Get ready to show scandalous grace...see people how God sees them.

“To build an outstanding church we need to show outstanding grace”.

God’s grace and forgiveness is for ALL that would ask and receive and a la the Godfather...surely ”it’s an offer we can’t refuse”.

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Scolari Quotes


A great coach, who could have been managing England! He utters some wonderful pearls of wisdom from time to time. The latest, concerning Zinedine Zidane...

“Zidane can decide a game. When the ball goes to his feet it doesn't cry - when it goes to my feet, it cries”

Monday, July 03, 2006

You Can Do It!

Spoke in church yesterday. It was a message based on the encouragement given to me by my family in the run-up to the London Marathon – in the form of a little booklet.

Hebrews 10:23-25(23) let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. (24) And let us consider how we may spur one another on towards love and good deeds. (25) Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another— and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

The word “unswervingly” is sometimes translated without wavering - it has the idea of staying true and firm without hesitation.

1) Remember - God is with us ALWAYS

Psalm 23 (NLT)

Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the Lord forever!

There’s no running or hiding from God...His love and goodness is constant, unceasing - relentless.

God is always with you – on your journey, on our journey. We should never forget that. He’s at the beginning...at the end – but we often forget he’s with us along the way!

2) Remember - ALWAYS Be Earthly Good

Beware of the flaky, mushy Christianity. (Flaky, def - eccentric, crazy, or just unreliable)

“So heavenly minded…no earthly good” – BUT be heavenly minded and earthly good. Touching Heaven…changing earth.

Guard against religiosity, super-spirituality, which is unreal and means nothing to anyone.

“Get earthed, but remain Heavened as well!”

3) Remember - ALWAYS Consider one another

Hebrews 10:24
And let us consider one another how we may spur each other on towards love and good deeds.

‘Consider one another...how we may spur each other on towards love and good deeds’ – not only am I thinking about my life but about your life as well, how I might encourage impetus in your life to do what is right.

4) Remember - ALWAYS Encourage

Inject courage into one another – don’t discourage (i.e. suck it our of them!)

1 Thessalonians 5:11-15

Encouraging words make a difference

The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life (Proverbs 10:11)

5) Remember - Determination and discipline is ALWAYS needed

We can’t escape certain things that must be present in our lives...if we’re going to see it through to the end – Determination and discipline.

Determination

Hebrews 10:23Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.

“Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3:12-14

Press on, no matter what the cost. Focus on what lies ahead, not behind.

Discipline

Hebrews 10:23Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.

The word ‘Unswervingly’ gives us a picture of resolute determination and with that must go discipline.

We’re so often put off by that word. Seen as something negative when applied to our own lives.

It’s all about having “good habits” in our lives. We never seem to have a problem with the ‘bad habits’...do we?

Final encouragement - Hebrews 12:1-4

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

Out of Egypt

On Sunday, Simon Wood brought a message for our church at this time.

See the House full...consider the bigger picture. Don’t look back.

Exodus 1:7 - But the Israelites were fruitful and multiplied greatly and became exceedingly numerous, so that the land was filled with them

The Children of Israel prospered in Israel but God had something much bigger for them. The Promised Land.

The new king of Egypt was threatened by the Children of Israel – even under affliction they prospered and grew.

Even when we go through tough times...we grow. God inhabits our praises; he inhabits our response - our faith.

God is taking us into the Promised Land, but we may need to experience the wilderness.

During their wilderness experience the Children of Israel kept looking back, longing for Egypt again.

As a church we have moved, we have transitioned – “the wilderness experience will make you look back or even go back, or it makes you move forward”.

Why didn’t the Children of Israel go into the Promised Land straight away?

1) They’d left Egypt but Egypt had not left them

2) They were looking for a god who went before them but had forgotten the promises of God – the Promised Land.

Exodus 32:1 - When the people saw that Moses was so long in coming down from the mountain, they gathered round Aaron and said, Come, make us gods who will go before us. As for this fellow Moses who brought us up out of Egypt, we don't know what has happened to him

They needed to lay hold of what God had for them. So do we. See what God sees – the bigger picture.

Own the vision of the House. Everyone of us is a part of it. We’re the master of it – our destiny.

We may face opposition - If God is for is who can be against us!

Be an ‘If only’ church not a ‘What if’ church!

Monday, June 26, 2006

World Cup Photo

I’m sure I used to play on a pitch like this one in my younger days...

Done by the groundsmen of the Olympic Park, Berlin.

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

Urban World 2050

The world is fast approaching the point where the majority of the human population will be found in urban areas.

The projection is that in 50 years' time, two-thirds of humanity will live in cities. Six experts outline their vision of the urban world in 2050. Read on.

Amazing photo comparison...

Dubai 1991


Dubai 2005

Tuesday, June 13, 2006

The World Cup

Sadly it's only every 4 years, but I love it! Come on England.

Oh and by the way...

This one's for Steve and Helen (sister-in-law) living in Perth. Well done the Socceroos...a great start.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

There's always a Sower and there's always a Seed

Great time in church this morning. Paul Benger spoke on ‘conditioning your heart for fruitfulness’.

Mark 4:10-25

There’s always a sower and there’s always a seed.

The purpose of Jesus teaching is for our fruitfulness, growth in our lives. His purpose is for our benefit. He came to give us life and life in all its fullness.
The Kingdom of God is meant to be the largest plant in the garden.

God knows we have needs so he plants seeds in our lives to grow and meet those needs. He’s looking for a harvest, for fruitfulness in our lives and in the life of the church.

Don’t hide your light under a bushel. Let it shine!

Jesus explains 4 stages of our condition...

Possibility 1: Hard Hearts
There’s nothing wrong with the seed - it just falls on hard ground. We can have hard hearts because of experiences, our past etc. The enemy comes and tries to steal the seed.

Possibility 2: Rocky Ground
People have no root in themselves. Their condition is the problem. Their faith is weak. Low self-esteem, low confidence. We may believe the word, but we lack the backbone, determination – we lose confidence.

Possibility 3: Thorny Ground
When God’s word comes other things spring up in our lives – chokes the word.
When we are believing for answer to prayer other things come and choke us – worry etc.

Possibility 4: Good Soil
Where we need to live. Not having a cynical, hard heart. We accept and receive God’s word…this is for me! The word will produce a harvest, great fruitfulness.

3 Keys for conditioning our hearts for fruitfulness...

1. Recognise by Faith there’s always a Sower
God is speaking to us all the time, many times through other people. God will always get His word to us.

2. Know by Faith that there’s always a Seed
God sends the seed – the Word. God wants us to sow our seed for our lives. There is always something for us to sow, even when we are afraid.
Isaiah 32:8But a generous man devises generous things, and by generosity he shall stand.

3. Understand by Faith it’s the measure we use that determines the result
The sower isn’t the major issue
The seed isn’t the major issue
It’s our response to His word that is the issue – what is our response?
Receive it – Do it!

Monday, June 05, 2006

Loyalty

Jeannie Benger spoke in church yesterday on the subject of ‘loyalty’.

John 15:13 - the greatest love is shown when people lay down their lives for their friends

Be careful what words we speak to people, Proverbs 18:21Those who love to talk will experience the consequences, for the tongue can kill or nourish life

Thoughtless/careless words can destroy a relationship.

Loyalty and faithfulness is the very essence of God’s character. He is ever loyal, ever faithful, even when we are unfaithful.

Be loyal to God, loyal to the House of God, loyal to family, friends, partners etc.

Our relationships are key to our future purposes in God. They are divine connections and key to our success.

Loyalty is learnt – over time, we’re not born with it. We can learn loyalty, be a ‘living’ example of loyalty and faithfulness.

Loyalty is a stance – it pays the price, it costs something. It confronts, stays firm. It’s not always easy and might sometime lose us friendships. Defend the people we love. Loyalty brings strength, brings longevity, brings success and blessing.

Loyalty defends what is precious. Loyalty is attractive. Proverbs 19:22 - Loyalty makes a person attractive

Loyalty tells a wonderful story – Psalm 145:1-7 – (1) I will praise you, my God and King, and bless your name forever and ever. (2) I will bless you every day, and I will praise you forever. (3) Great is the LORD! He is most worthy of praise! His greatness is beyond discovery! (4) Let each generation tell its children of your mighty acts. (5) I will meditate on your majestic, glorious splendour and your wonderful miracles. (6) Your awe-inspiring deeds will be on every tongue; I will proclaim your greatness. (7) Everyone will share the story of your wonderful goodness; they will sing with joy of your righteousness.

Monday, May 29, 2006

Also...Life's Too Short

...to live on a weak foundation.

Yesterday in church Paul Benger wrapped up a great little series on ‘life’s too short’, this week he touched upon the subject of building our lives on the right foundation.

Matthew 7:24-39

We need stability. A rock bed underneath us. Be safe and feel safe. We need something or someone in our life that gives us stability. Unless there is a foundation in our life that is secure the building comes down.

Live a rock kind of living.

5 rocks to build our lives upon...

1) The Rock called Jesus

Jesus has taken our curse and nailed it to the cross. Paid the price for our lives, so that we can receive everything that God has for us. He is the Rock that our lives are built upon. Who do we trust – what we believe determines what we do in life. Believe that Jesus has done it all. This is the good news of the Gospel. He is the Cornerstone. 1 Peter 2:6As the Scriptures express it, "I am placing a stone in Jerusalem, a chosen cornerstone, and anyone who believes in him will never be disappointed."
He is faithful, Hebrews 13:8Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

2) The Rock called God’s Word

Which report will you believe? God’s word is written about you...what does he say about you? His word is precious...without it what have we got?
His word is our weapon – the sword of the Spirit.
His word is our internal GPS, Psalm 119:105 - Your word is a lamp for my feet and a light for my path.

3) The Rock called Faith

God shows us things before we receive them. Through faith we turn them into reality. Faith ACTS and WAITS, patience and faith. Noah had to BUILD and BELIEVE. Act and Trust.

4) The Rock called Hope

God gives us opportunities to grow, to move forward. His desire is for us to grow, to reach our full potential. The enemy tries to stop this, but we can overcome – stand your ground. Be rock-like.
Philippians 3:12-14 - (12) I don't mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection! But I keep working toward that day when I will finally be all that Christ Jesus saved me for and wants me to be. (13) No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, (14) I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven

5) The Rock called Love

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

The Christian spirit is to love people. To believe the very best of people – not the negative. The way to LIFE is to LOVE people. Don’t excuse HATE in your life. God has a better way to live.
Mark 12:31 – 'Love your neighbour as yourself.' No other commandment is greater than these.

Sunday, May 28, 2006

Come on you Reds!

2-2 (4-3 penalties aet)
My team BARNSLEY got promoted to the Championship yesterday after a tense play-off semi-final against Swansea in Cardiff. It wasn’t very pretty to be honest and it went to penalties which was not good for the nerves....but we did it!

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Life's Too Short

...to live without vision

Paul spoke in church this morning about vision, in particular having God’s vision for your life.

Proverbs 29:18Where there is no revelation (vision) the people cast off restraint

Matthew 4:17 From that time Jesus began preaching saying ‘Repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand’

What is reality? Unless we have vision for our lives we live out of control. Jesus brought reality through the Kingdom of God. He introduced a God culture, a God way of living.

The Kingdom of God is not a piece of land, but the hearts of men and women who have learned to live a God culture where God is involved in the detail of my life.

Designer living is living life according to our ‘Designer’.

Living a God culture is about living...

A life with vision
A life with purpose
A life having a healthy self-image
A life being set free from the past
A life having strength in adversity
A life of generosity and giving
A life of happiness, joy and passion

Don’t get comfortable; don’t settle…keeping pressing on towards your goal. Don’t lose your resolve.

7 Keys to embracing a God culture

Change your vision
Change the image of yourself (get God’s image of you)
Change the thoughts and words that surround your life
Change the impact of the past
Change your response to adversity
Change your attitude to giving
Change your purpose to joy for living

Sunday, May 07, 2006

You're Hired

Mark Wilkins spoke in church this morning. It was based on one of my favourite TV programmes at the moment, The Apprentice.

He asked the question, why have the apprentice candidates decided to go on the programme when many of them already have great positions or own their own businesses – because they desire to work alongside Sir Alan Sugar.

“I’d like to be Sir Alan’s apprentice because I like to do the best I can in life and therefore would like to learn from the best [Sir Alan Sugar]” Sharon (one of the candidates)

Jesus should be someone who we aspire to be with, follow, imitate, and learn from, to be a disciple of.

Today, ask yourself 3 questions

Why would you become an apprentice?
Who would you follow?
How do we follow someone?

Why would you become an apprentice?

Realise that you are not the complete article. Have a realisation that a better life is possible.

Luke 5:4-11; Luke 5:27-32

When Jesus called the first disciples, they recognised that Jesus was someone worth following. Peter – he didn’t think he was good enough. Matthew – His friends didn’t think he was good enough.

Realise, none of us are perfect. We don’t know all the answers. Jesus knows - Follow him.

Ephesians 2:1-8 – Realise everything we can have and know in following Christ.

Who to follow?

Jesus - he said in Matthew 7:24 ‘build you life upon me’
Church leaders – 1 Corinthians 4:14-16; 2 Timothy 3:14

How to follow?

Make sure humility is in your life. It’s not a weakness as some people think. It’s having a confidence in who you are in Christ. Realise what God has done in your life – live from that place.

The Apostle Paul recognised, even through hardship, because of his love for Christ that his ‘burden was light’. Keep your focus on Christ and what you have because of Him.

Jesus is saying to ‘all’, “You’re hired” - nobody is excluded. The choice is ours though when it comes to choosing to be His apprentice.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Love is the Greatest

Spoke in church on Sunday...

1 Corinthians 13:1-13

Love God...Love People

Jesus said…Matthew 22:37-39 (37)'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' (38) This is the first and greatest commandment. (39) And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbour as yourself.'

Earth is our practice run for what we will be doing in eternity, which is spending time loving God and loving others.

In Galatians 5:6 it shows us that God values a faith which expresses itself in love - “For when we place our faith in Christ Jesus, it makes no difference to God whether we are circumcised or not circumcised. What is important is faith expressing itself in love.”

We should have a kind of faith that compels us to love people.

Love is a command

Said already (Love the Lord your God…love your neighbour)
Love is doing what God has commanded. Love is not just a feeling, it is much more. Feelings cannot be commanded. We should not just led by our emotions.

Love is a choice

1 Corinthians 14:1Follow the way of love and eagerly desire spiritual gifts, especially the gift of prophecy

We should ‘pursue’ love, ‘go after’ it. Sometimes we give people what they deserve, loving someone is about giving what they need - that is called grace.

Love is a conduct

1 John 3:18Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth

It is not just words but also in deed.

Love is a commitment

1 John 4:16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him

How do we love people practically?

Get to understand how God loves you.

Memorise scripture about what God says about love.

Start your day with reminder of love. Set the tone of the day. What matters most to God is love.

Practice acting in unselfish ways. Selfishness is the scourge of humankind.

Love is a muscle. Initially it’s hard to love but it gets developed over time. You need to exercise it everyday.

We cannot grow in love on our own. You need to be in the midst of people to grow in love.

From 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 – Six aspects of LOVE.

1. Love is Kind

In 1 Corinthians 13:4 it says love is kind and that kindness is expressed in action.

Four key things we can learn about showing kindness from the Parable of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10.

Begins with our Eyes

We need to start seeing the needs of people around us.

In Luke 10:33 is says When he ‘saw’ him. It begins with our eyes, the way you see the world, the way we are sensitive to the needs of our world. We need to expand our vision and be more observant of the needs around us, the hurting and wounded.

Obstacle to kindness is ‘busyness’ - hurry is the death of kindness. The more we slow down in life, the more sensitive we will be. Ask God to give you spiritual radar, to open the eyes of your heart. Kindness can be learnt, not just born with it.

Use our Ears - Listening is a form of kindness.

We need to sympathise with the other person’s pain. To feel the other person’s emotions, we have to care. In verse 33 it says, “he took pity”. We do this by using our ears and listening to the other person’s pain. The secret to genuine sympathy is being there for the other person.

2 Corinthians 1:4He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.

Every problem we go through is a chance for us to learn to be more sympathetic with others’ pain.

Use what we Have

We need to seize the moment to be kind, don’t delay. In verse 34 it says “he stooped down and kneeled down” he came to the man’s level. He used what he had with him ‘wine & oil’.

a) We must be willing to be interrupted, it happens on their schedule, not ours. Love is often inconvenient.

b) We can’t let excuses get in the way “I’ve got my own problems” “I’ve got important businesses to care for.”

c) We must be willing to take risks. Fear keeps us from being kind. Fear makes us unkind. Perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).

He spent whatever it took

It costs us something to be kind, our privacy, our time, our resources. What did the good Samaritan gain from it? Nothing materialistically, so why should we be kind?

Isaiah 58:10-11 – (10) Feed the hungry and help those in trouble. Then your light will shine out from the darkness, and the darkness around you will be as bright as day. (11) The LORD will guide you continually, watering your life when you are dry and keeping you healthy, too. You will be like a well-watered garden, like an ever-flowing spring

God says, he guarantees he will meet our needs, when we are kind.

3 Ways to show practical kindness:

Proverbs 12:25 - Kind word – An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up

Proverbs 14:21 - Kind deed - He who despises his neighbour sins, but blessed is he who is kind to the needy

Proverbs 19:17 - Kind gift – He who is kind to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will reward him for what he has done

2. Love does not Envy

ENVY is usually the underlying cause of problems in relationships

Envy is a painful awareness of what another possesses and a desire to have it. It is also resenting God’s goodness to others and ignoring what God has done for us.

Five ways to get rid of envy:

Don’t compare yourself with others
Comparing leads to pride or envy. Each person is unique and each path is different according to God’s plan for their life.

Start enjoying God’s grace to others
In Romans 12:15 it says rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep.

Be grateful for what you have

Philippians 4:11 – Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to get along happily whether I have much or little. (Apostle Paul)

Trust God when life seems unfair

Keep focused on God’s plan for your life

3. Love is Humble

In 1 Corinthians 13:4 it says ‘love does not parade itself, is not puffed up’.

What it is not:

• Humility is not shyness
• Humility is not meekness
• Humility is not low esteem

Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.

Four key things to practise humility:

Give preference to others
Make a pre-determined choice of putting others first. Romans 12:10 - ‘Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honour giving preference to one another.’

We have a choice, to be a person of love is a choice, it’s a decision.

Practise learning from others
Always be open to suggestions and criticisms, heart that is teachable. The day you think you know everything, you stop learning.

Practise admitting when we are wrong
Accept responsibility, take ownership, don’t justify.

Surrender your plans to the Lord
We need to submit to God’s Lordship.

4. Love is being Respectful

1 Corinthians 13:5 “Love does not behave itself rudely”, which means love is being respectful.

Love does not seek its own way, it seeks others. How to show respect:

You stop and you listen
You give your undivided attention to others. This shows that we genuinely care.

Keep your promises
Stay true to what you promised, hold onto what you say, let your ‘yes’ be ‘yes’ and your ‘no’ be ‘no’.

Yield ourselves to serve others willingly

2 Corinthians 12:15 (Paul) – So I will very gladly spend for you everything I have and expend myself as well. If I love you more, will you love me less?

5. Love is Patient

In Ephesians 4:26 it says ‘In your anger do not sin’. There is an anger that is not sinful - that you can control. It is righteous indignation. It is different from an anger that is out of control.

How to Break Cycle of Anger and Gain Patience?

Break the pattern of anger
If you keep justifying your behaviour you will keep the habit. You need to confront the problem, if you don’t you will not conquer.

Proverbs 14:29 - A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly.

Proverbs 25:28Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control

Guard your relationships
You need to make a heart commitment that no matter what you are angry about – don’t be angry at the person. Make a commitment to value and guard your relationships.

In Proverbs 15:1 it says ‘a soft answer (gentle response), diffuses anger’. What is a gentle response? It is being humble, even when it isn’t your fault.

Release your worries to God
Psalm 37:8 says worries and anxieties cause people to get easily frustrated and angered.
Philippians 4:6 ‘do not be anxious about anything’.

Change your expectations, but don’t lower your standards
Don’t lower your standard but just lower your expectations of people. Philippians 4:8 encourages us to focus on the positive (on strengths) and not the weaknesses.

6. Love Keeps No Record of Wrongs

The ultimate test of love is the test of forgiveness.

Forgiveness is not:

Conditional
It is not based on someone’s response, it is something we do based on faith. If someone hurts us, it’s up to us to take the step to forgive. Forgiveness is unconditional.

Minimising the hurt
It is not minimising the offence and pain. We need to know the difference between being wounded and being wronged. We need to tell the person who has hurt us that we are offended but still offer forgiveness.

Resuming relationship without change
We need to see genuine repentance in the other person and real change of mind and behaviour before we get back to a close relationship again.

Forgetting what happens
God does not forget but chooses not to remember.

My right if it wasn’t me who was hurt

What is Forgiveness?

Relinquish your right to get even
We must surrender the area to the Lord and be able to release – that is real forgiveness. The root of bitterness can very easily spring up. Bitterness poisons you and others. It corrupts the fruit of our lives.

Respond to evil with good
Luke 6:28 “Do good to those who hate you, bless and pray for them.”

You repeat this process as long as necessary
We need to see everything through eyes of grace; following the example of Jesus.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Insect Eyes


An artificial insect eye that could be used in ultra-thin cameras has been developed by scientists in the US. Read on

"Even though insects start with just a single cell, they grow and create this beautiful optical system by themselves. I wanted to understand how nature can create layer upon layer of perfectly ordered structures without expensive, fabrication technology," said Professor Luke Lee. (;-))

Thursday, April 20, 2006

London Marathon

This was one of my daily readings today...

Isaiah 40:31 - "Those who wait on the LORD will find new strength"

When you know Jesus, you're continually refreshed. Even when you are most weary, God will come to you. He'll gently carry you when you can't walk on your own.

How appropriate as I look forward to the big day! I may need some assistance towards the end.

Friday, April 14, 2006

Good Friday

I thought about my up and coming London Marathon attempt this morning. The kind of physical and emotional struggles I will no doubt endure....the pain, the agony, the suffering and the sacrifice and of course the passion. Then I thought again....

Sunday, April 09, 2006

The Presence of God

Paul Benger spoke an important message this morning in church on the Presence of God.

1 Chronicles 13:7-14

David wanted the Ark of God returned, not to remain at the extremities but back to the centre.

We need that kind of attitude – to want to have the presence of God at the centre of our lives and not at the extremities.

As New Testament believers we don’t have a box, we have the presence of God in our lives. But we can still push God to the extremities.

Let’s look at the attitudes of 3 different individuals towards the presence of God coming back.

Uzzah

Uzzah died because he steadied the Ark of the Covenant, which became unstable on the cart as the oxen stumbled due to a pothole in the road.

We will all face potholes in the road. What is our response to them?
We’re not meant to help God out – we need to trust Him with our lives. Something’s need to be left to God, we can’t force it to happen (e.g. Abraham having children)

Beware of familiarity. Uzzah had probably become familiar with the Ark of God. Never become familiar with what we do in church. Always be in a place of expectation and anticipation.

The Ark should have been carried by people using poles and not on a cart. People carry the presence of God.

Michal

1 Chronicles 15:29 - But as the Ark of the Lord’s covenant entered the City of David, Michal, the daughter of Saul, looked down from her window. When she saw King David dancing and leaping for joy, she was filled with contempt for him

Don’t be like Michal. People who shout from the sidelines have a ‘lot to say’.
Contempt kills fruitfulness. When we take on a cynical or negative attitude it kills our fruitfulness.

Obed-Edom

A blessed man, and not just because the Ark of God was at his home.
He was also a man of great character and integrity. Involved in the things of God.

He was a gatekeeper
He was a musician involved in worship
He was a doorkeeper in the house of God
He was a leader (1 Chronicles 16:38)

Let’s have the right attitude to God’s presence, not cynical or negative, not shouting, “we can do better” from the sidelines.

What will our attitude be as we enter this new phase in the life of our church? Let us shoulder the burden together. Have the Obed-Edom attitude.

Thursday, April 06, 2006

'Success' Poem

This blew me away...

You can use most any measure
When you're speaking of success
You can measure it in fancy home
Expensive car or dress
But the measure of your real success
Is one you cannot spend
It's the way your son describes you
When he's talking to a friend

(Martin Buxbaum)

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Are You Sleeping?

Great message in church today. Paul Benger completed his series on Faith.

“This message should send you to sleep!”

Psalm 37:1-9

Dreamers need to sleep. If you don’t sleep you won’t dream. God uses us at our best when we are at rest. (Adam, Jacob etc)

Psalm 3:5 - I lay down and slept. I woke up in safety, for the LORD was watching over me.
Psalm 4:8 - I will lie down in peace and sleep, for you alone, O LORD, will keep me safe.
Psalm 127:2 - It is useless for you to work so hard from early morning until late at night, anxiously working for food to eat; for God gives rest to his loved ones.

God wants us to be at rest...not frantic, stressed, worrying etc. Lie down on your troubles - be at peace, be at rest.

Faith’s first position is rest (sleep) Trusting that God is on our side. Adam’s first day was a day of rest.

What kind of Christian/Church are we? Frantic/fretful? Always thinking ‘we must do more!’….‘If only we did more!’ Or are we a faith-filled Christian/Church? At peace/rest believing in the favour of God for our lives. We come from a position of having already won.

What causes us to be anxious? Look at Psalm 37

1) Refuse to respond to opposition (Vs 1-2)

Don’t worry about the wicked.

Psalm 37:23-26(23) The steps of the godly are directed by the LORD. He delights in every detail of their lives. (24) Though they stumble, they will not fall, for the LORD holds them by the hand. (25) Once I was young, and now I am old. Yet I have never seen the godly forsaken, nor seen their children begging for bread. (26) The godly always give generous loans to others, and their children are a blessing.

Let our actions flow from a peaceful spirit...trusting God.

2) Refuse to look at what you don’t have (Vs 1-2)

Don’t be envious of others. Don’t measure your life by your possessions...your net worth. Or don’t measure your life by what you don’t have. (Moses – ‘What is in your hand?’ Use what God has given you...no matter how small or insignificant it may appear. When we use what we’ve got, obediently, God steps in! (Parable of the Talents)

3) Refuse to leave the place of rest (Vs 3-4)

Rest is a daily choice. It is categorised by trust and by doing good. Also by being planted in the House of God. Choose faithfulness. Don’t shrug off what you’re asked to do.

4) Refuse to take matters into your own hands (Vs 5-6)

Trust in God. He will cause your righteousness to shine. It’s not what we can do but what God can do! Leave your troubles with God, don’t be lazy, but trust God with the outcome.

5) Refuse to get mad (Vs 7-9)

When the person next to you gets a new car or a bigger house, when others are getting blessed, what is your reaction? It may be a stumbling block. Rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn. Don’t mourn with those who rejoice or rejoice with those who mourn!

Are you mad? Mad at God, mad with your life, mad at others? Answer = Rest, let God make your righteousness shine.

Faith’s first positive is SLEEP.

Sunday, March 26, 2006

What Not to Wear

Jeannie Benger hit the spot again tonight with a challenging message on 'What Not to Wear'.

It’s all about how we look on the inside...do we wear God well? How do we reflect God to our world?

1) Don’t Wear Sympathy and Hurt

Do wear grace and compassion.
Don’t live under the constant sympathy of others
Live with people who show grace and compassion who spur us on. Sympathy doesn’t give answers. Compassion motivates us, grows us, spurs us on.

2) Don’t Wear Worry and Anxiety

Do wear faith and hope. Hope for our future. Believe God’s promises for our lives.
Don’t fear bad news. Be confident in God. Don’t focus on the problem, focus on the answer – God.

Proverbs 12:25 - Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.

Surround yourself with positive, faith filled words/people. Your environment is critical – chose the right people not the ‘sympathisers’.

Philippians 4:6 - Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.

God is El Shaddai – more than enough!

3) Don’t Wear a Slave Mentality

Do wear a servant mentality.
Slaves are ‘helpless victims’ without freedom.
Choose to follow, choose to serve. A ‘whatever it takes’ attitude. A Kingdom mentality for a Kingdom of excellence. God deserves the very best.
Honour others above yourself...it’s not about me.
Serve with a heart of confidence (confident in the God we serve)
Serve with a heart of strength
Serve with a heart of thankfulness
Serve with a heart of sowing (time, finance, ideas)
Serve with a heart of release (releasing others to do)

4) Don’t Wear Negativity

Do wear positivity – encourage.
Guard your words. Be gracious with others. Show grace and generosity. From the abundance of your heart the mouth speaks. What’s in your heart?

Hebrews 12:15 - Look after each other so that none of you will miss out on the special favour of God. Watch out that no bitter root of unbelief rises up among you, for whenever it springs up, many are corrupted by its poison.

Let your words lift people and not tear them down.

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

England Roar


Great win in India to tie the series. Well done Freddie and the boys. What a result with so many of our first choice players out for various reasons. Some of them must be a little worried about their places for sure!

Sunday, March 19, 2006

Handling Life’s Storms

Fantastic message in church tonight. Paul Benger spoke on ‘Handling Life’s Storms’ which was the second part of his series on Faith.

Acts 27:27-44

He shared with us a few facts about some of the characteristics of storms, in particular the recent hurricanes to hit the USA. He then contrasted this with the fact that ‘storms’ effect our lives.

We all face storms in our lives both literal (i.e. the kind that causes floods and blow our roofs off!) - to the more common ‘life storms’. Both types cause upheaval and are messy!

Sometimes though we experience ‘inconveniences’ which we react to as though they were storms.

Some of the characteristics of storms - Unexpected, unfavourable, unpleasant and unpredictable.

Storms are there to harm you - inconveniences can be doing you good. Don’t over react to them.

Storms come in seasons. In Acts 27 the storm Paul faced lasted 2 weeks!
If you are facing a storm right now remember storms come in seasons – it won’t last forever!

If it’s just an inconvenience...they’re part of the action. As Christians, rise up – have a backbone. The Spirit of God is inside of us, don’t succumb to the spirit of the age. Take a stand.

Four important responses in the midst of storms:

1) Don’t Abandon Your Trust in God

Don’t look for a reason why – trust God. Don’t focus on your smallness, focus on the greatness of God. Paul – “God has shown me, no one will die’

Don’t rely on yourself – don’t trust in human wisdom, it’s flawed. Trust God – do it His way. You’re only ‘right’ when you agree with God – it’s time to change your mind!

The storm will reveal what’s inside of us. How much hope we’ve got, how much faith we’ve got, how much joy we’ve got.

The storm doesn’t reveal stuff for God to see – the storm let’s us know what we need in our life.

2) Don’t Abandon the Ship and Crew

(Vs 30-32) – Too many people jump ship when the storm comes. God wants us to draw closer. The church to draw ranks as there is still much work to be done. The best place to be when the storm comes is in the House of God.

When the storm comes don’t project your problems on someone else...and don’t think the grass is always greener on the other side. Grass is grass!

3) Don’t Abandon Your Faith

Don’t go into crisis or panic mode. What’s inside of us? Faith?
Don’t be blasé – ‘It’s not a problem’ (They’re usually is!)

Lighten the load. It’s an act of faith. Hebrews 12:1 - Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily hinders our progress. And let us run with endurance the race that God has set before us.

Get rid of the rubbish on our lives. People often add to the load when storms come.
Eat something good. The food of faith - not negativity from negative people.
Keep doing what you need to do – don’t stop (don't give up). Keep giving, keep sowing…keep reaping.
Keep your language right. A language of hope. ‘God will do’.

4) Don’t Abandon Your Mission

They stayed with the ship...until they’d accomplished their mission. Changes happen so that we can fulfil our mission.

Consider the changes that we are about to face as a church. It’s all about us fulfilling our mission. What God has called us to do at this time. To see His church built in this place. A community of God’s people being drawn together. People coming to faith in Christ, prodigals being restored.

Let’s not abandon our mission!

Friday, March 17, 2006

Got My Number

I've just received my number for the London Marathon:

33964

My London Marathon Blog is currently down at the moment...Blogger is having problems with some of their sites. Check it out (when you can!) and why not sponsor me?! So far I've raised over £700 for Help the Hospices.

Monday, March 13, 2006

Great Expectations

Jeannie Benger spoke an encouraging message in church last night on having great and ‘God’ expectations.

We sometimes live with low or even no expectations - for our lives, our future, our families, our jobs etc.

Expect good things to happen. What are you expecting? Have God’s expectations in your life. Raise your expectation level. Expect much and expect great things for your life.

Ephesians 3:20God can do anything, you know - far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.

God is a gentleman, he won’t force the issue.

Psalm 37:4Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. God will give you good things!

Desire God desires. Desire is creative not passive. Have good and God ideas. He wants us to be a creative people – He is a creative God. Don’t be passive, having a tendency not to participate (i.e. letting others take the lead). Don’t sit back – create!

Live your life with dreams and visions – knowing they can be achieved through God.

2 Corinthians 10:13We, however, will not boast beyond proper limits, but will confine our boasting to the field God has assigned to us, a field that reaches even to you

Live within the sphere God has placed you but also know your limits.
Fulfil the potential God knows you have. Influence (for good) those within your sphere – see those around you through Gods eyes.

We don’t want people to look at our lives and say ‘we don’t want what they’ve got’ BUT ‘we do want what they’ve got!’

We’ve been given authority in heaven and on earth to fulfil His purposes for our lives. Be fruitful. Find your place, serving God. Rekindle those dreams that have dimmed.

For us as a church – God wants us to be large and influential. We’re all responsible for that vision of growth. Live the dream together – expect great things!

Live a life of faith – believing God for great things.

Hebrews 11:1 - NOW FAITH is the assurance (the confirmation, the title deed) of the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses]

Stay focused. You might not win every battle, but you will win the war!

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Quotes

Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia. Charles M Schulz

Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, "Where have I gone wrong?" Then a voice says to me, "This is going to take more than one night." Charles M Schulz

Monday, March 06, 2006

This is the Day

Spoke last night in church...

Psalm 118:24 - "This is the day the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad in it" - This is the day! (NOT - This is ‘A’ Day but this is THE Day the Lord has made!)

Lamentations 3:22-23 - Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his mercies never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.

Jesus prayed…

Matthew 6:9-11(9) This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, (10) your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. (11) Give us today our daily bread.

Jesus prayed about the great purpose and will of God (Your Kingdom come, Your will be done) and then linked it back to today (verse 11). ‘Give us TODAY…’

There is a strong link between the eternal purpose of God and today!

WHY PEOPLE MISS THE VALUE OF TODAY

1) They Get Stuck in Yesterday’s Successes or Yesterday’s Negativity

In Psalm 77 the Psalmist dreamed of "the good old days." He looked backward and his attachment to the past limited his present. He would have done well to forget what was and focus on the what is. Looking back and dwelling in the past will limit our present.

Let me say three things about that:

(Firstly) Don't dwell on past sins and failures. Learn the lessons that failure teaches us, turn away from those sins in genuine repentance.

(Secondly) Don't dwell on "the good old days" which weren't as good as our memory tricks us into believing. Yes, have fond memories, cherish special moments of days gone by, but don't live there and forget about today!

(Thirdly) Don't rest on your laurels of past accomplishments. Some think they've done their lifetime of service for Christ and now they'll just sit back and let others do all the work. Past accomplishment should not limit present opportunities and service.

What happened in our past in some way influences our present and that can be a good thing IF we learn the lessons we ought to have learned. But it is not a good thing if we bring our former sins/failures, former joys and even former successes into the present and let them limit what we are doing right now.

Whatever you were in the there and then should not keep you from being what you can be in the here and now. Don't let your past limit your present. THIS IS A NEW DAY!

My day is not determined by what is happening around me, it is determined by WHO is living in me!

2) They Worry about Tomorrow

Matthew 6:25-35

KEY: Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well

NLT puts it like this in Luke 12:31"He will give you all you need from day to day if you make the Kingdom of God your primary concern."

And God said this - "For I know the plans I have for you. They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope." Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT).

If Jesus is the Lord of your present, He has taken care of your past and assures you of a glorious future. With God, the best is yet to come.

Jesus is the same yesterday, TODAY and forever!

3) They Overestimate Tomorrow

Some people anticipate and yearn for the future as "better days which are to come." But people can (through longing for tomorrow) - despise today.

Both being apprehensive about the future and longing too much for it impacts the here and now.

You cannot hope for a good tomorrow without investing in it today - the seed you sow into the soil of today will determine your harvest of tomorrow

The purposes of God are future (YES) – but must be worked out on the present TODAY.

4) They Underestimate Today

Daily discipline that you exercise determines whether you fulfill the purpose of God. Do it TODAY. Don’t wait.

Today is the day of Salvation (2 Corinthians 6:2) I tell you, now is the time of God's favour, today is the day of salvation! (What are we waiting for?)

John 4:35Do you think the work of harvesting will not begin until the summer ends four months from now? Look around you! Vast fields are ripening all around us and are ready now for the harvest! Today the fields are ready for harvesting!

Don’t let idleness deceive you. For while you give him today, he steals tomorrow from you. - A. F. Forester

Five keys to getting the most out of Today...

1) Live with Purpose

God has a purpose for your life. Created to worship…love Him (with all our hearts, soul, mind, strength) - My life is here by divine design to fulfill God’s great purpose.

2) Live with Focus

Focus causes you to do the things that are important. Life decisions require focus. Time is limited therefore focus is required. Focus on the things of God…the life He wants us to live for Him.

3) Choose to Take Risks

God has called us to live a life of faith, not mediocrity. ‘Have a go!’ – Be passionate about TODAY!

4) Make every Second Count

Your ‘perspective’ will cause you to value or devalue your time. Our perspective shapes of life…governs our priorities. Get God’s perspective on you life.

5) Live in Preparation

Be prepared so that you are ready when the call of God comes.

David (speaking to that GIANT)…1 Samuel 17:46This day the LORD will hand you over to me, and I'll strike you down and cut off your head. Today I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds of the air and the beasts of the earth, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel.

Be ready to take your opportunity when it comes.

Monday, February 27, 2006

The Power of Perspective

Paul Benger began a three-part series last night on Faith. The first part being on the ‘Power of Perspective’.

How we view things is really important. We’re not talking about the power of positive thinking – although even that is better than the power of negative thinking.

Our perspective can give us peace and joy OR torment. Look at Saul...

1 Samuel 18:1-16 (Saul’s perspective)

Saul began to view David as an enemy and not as an ally. His perspective became negative. Full of jealousy and fear about his position and place. Instead of joy...sadness. All of this because of the power of perspective.

God doesn’t want you to live with your view on life – But His view, His perspective. Have the same mind as God’s. See what he sees, be one in perspective. Philippians 2:5Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.

Your perspective will lead your decisions. Your perspective will chose your friends. Your perspective will govern your priorities.

Psalm 4 (David’s perspective)

4 perspectives of David...

Verse 1 – God is working all things together for good

Romans 8:28And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them

We often let our troubles change our view of God. We become introspective.
6 important areas to consider concerning God working things together for our good:

1. This is a trial of my faith not my endurance
2. God is enlarging me through this trial
3. God will relieve the pain and burden of this trial if we refuse ownership – give it to God. (Cast all your burdens on Him)
4. God will carry the burden for you
5. God has not changed His opinion of you
6. God will have mercy on you and will hear your prayer

Verse 3 – God has positioned me for good success

We are set apart by God for His purposes (saved and called). We are here to extend His kingdom. All things are beneath His feet and also beneath our feet. We will overcome and conquer. Get the right perspective – you are above and not below!
Circumstances don’t make you a winner or a loser. Paul’s perspective – Because of Christ, I can do all things.

Verse 6 – God will reveal Himself to me

God will light my way. His word is a lamp to my feet. In any sphere of your life look where God is shining His light. Look for His perspective. Get out of the darkness, out of the unclear places where we’re not making the right decisions.

Verse 8 – God will protect my life

Have confidence in God that He will protect you. Think eternally. Where are you looking to for protection? Peace comes from knowing God. Psalm 27:4-6 - God hides you. He puts you under His wings in the day of trouble. We’re surrounded by the protection of God.

Monday, February 20, 2006

Overcoming Our Fears

Mark Wilkins brought a great message in church last night - all about Abraham and how he had to come to terms with his fears.

Genesis 12-15

Despite the promises of God, Abraham still had to confront and overcome a number of fears. Rational and irrational.

He obeys and follows God but hits several problems along the way which causes fear and him losing sight of the promises of God.

Eventually the passage of time begins to cause him to doubt and question God. Begins to see things through human eyes...forgetting God’s promises for his life. He tries to accomplish things in his own strength.

The longer time goes on...we begin to question, did God really say that? This is a difficulty for us in our ‘instant’ culture. God teaches us patience.

Overcoming our FEARS...

The Cause – We lose sight of God’s promises for us. The passage of time causes us to doubt and question. We become afraid.

The Cure – We need to focus on the promises of God. Read what God has said in his Word about us, about the plans he has for us. (Isaiah 41) Build your faith...live in the promises of God.

The Outcome – We will grow stronger in our faith. Be able to stand in a position of strength.

Romans 4:17-22(17) That is what the Scriptures mean when God told him, "I have made you the father of many nations." his happened because Abraham believed in the God who brings the dead back to life and who brings into existence what didn't exist before. (18) When God promised Abraham that he would become the father of many nations, Abraham believed him. God had also said, "Your descendants will be as numerous as the stars," even though such a promise seemed utterly impossible! (19) And Abraham's faith did not weaken, even though he knew that he was too old to be a father at the age of one hundred and that Sarah, his wife, had never been able to have children. (20) Abraham never wavered in believing God's promise. In fact, his faith grew stronger, and in this he brought glory to God. (21) He was absolutely convinced that God was able to do anything he promised. (22) And because of Abraham's faith, God declared him to be righteous.

Monday, February 13, 2006

Your Place - Christ's Body Part 3

Ephesians 1:22-23(22) And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head over all things to the church, (23) which is his body, the fullness of him who fills all in all. (English Standard Version)

Paul Benger hadn’t quite finished with us yet. He carried on this excellent series last night looking at the second characteristic of those who make up Christ’s body – the church...

We are supernaturally joined to other believers by the Holy Spirit

The Holy Spirit in you...this is what makes you alive! The flicker of desire within you to be a part of God’s House – that is the Holy Spirit at work in your life. Let that flicker become a flame!

In the Old Testament the Ark of the Covenant signified the presence of God. Today we don’t have a box we have you and me – we carry the presence of the Living God.

Jesus made things real. The presence of God is not some mystical thing – it is where there is a culture of faith.

God is among us – He speaks into our life and gives us hope. The church is a place of hope. God is in the House when there is...

A spirit of Service, of Praise and Worship, of Generosity, of Trust, of Salvation, of Healing…and where there is a Good Attitude!

We need to check we have these things on a daily basis. These are the signs of the presence of God.

In the midst of tough times do we have the presence of God in our lives, which means we cling to Him – we trust Him?

From the Old Testament people are still looking for the literal restoration of the Temple...as we come into the New Testament we see that WE are that Temple...the Church.

Ephesians 2:18-22(18) Now all of us, both Jews and Gentiles, may come to the Father through the same Holy Spirit because of what Christ has done for us. (19) So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God's holy people. You are members of God's family. (20) We are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself. (21) We who believe are carefully joined together, becoming a holy temple for the Lord. (22) Through him you Gentiles are also joined together as part of this dwelling where God lives by his Spirit.

5 great things about the Temple

- The Temple is built on a Solid Foundation
- The Tempe is built with a God Given Structure
- The Temple is built on God Given Connections
- The Temple is built in a Holy Fashion
Not religious, not solemn – but set apart for God, putting him first. Doing things for God with excellence. Because God is holy our service to God is holy.
- The Temple is built by the Holy Spirit

Friday, February 10, 2006

What is Intelligent Design?

Read this recently...

"Intelligent design" refers to a scientific research program as well as a community of scientists, philosophers and other scholars who seek evidence of design in nature. Through the study and analysis of a system's components, a design theorist is able to determine whether various natural structures are the product of chance, natural law, intelligent design or some combination thereof.

For example, consider Mount Rushmore:



The pattern of the rocks in the talus slopes below the faces is due primarily to chance and natural law. The pattern of erosion alongside the faces is due primarily to natural law and chance. The pattern of the presidents' faces is due primarily to intelligent design.

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Your Place - Christ's Body Part 2

Paul Benger completed his excellent message on the church tonight.

Ephesians 1:22-23 (The Message)(22) He is in charge of it all, has the final word on everything. At the centre of all this, Christ rules the church. (23) The church, you see, is not peripheral to the world; the world is peripheral to the church. The church is Christ's body, in which he speaks and acts, by which he fills everything with his presence.

After recapping on last weeks main points Paul homed in on the first point from last week...

We are united by our loyalty to Jesus Christ

We cannot be a Christ follower and be disconnected from the Body.

Unity is Life Giving

Psalm 133(1) How wonderful it is, how pleasant, when brothers live together in harmony! (2) For harmony is as precious as the fragrant anointing oil that was poured over Aaron's head, that ran down his beard and onto the border of his robe. (3) Harmony is as refreshing as the dew from Mount Hermon that falls on the mountains of Zion. And the LORD has pronounced his blessing, even life forevermore.

Unity gives life to us, there is an anointing that comes upon the church and makes us succeed. When we’re not pulling in different directions but all pulling in the same direction.

Unity of the Spirit

Ephesians 4:1-6(1) Therefore I, a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God. (2) Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other's faults because of your love. (3) Always keep yourselves united in the Holy Spirit, and bind yourselves together with peace. (4) We are all one body, we have the same Spirit, and we have all been called to the same glorious future. (5) There is only one Lord, one faith, one baptism, (6) and there is only one God and Father, who is over us all and in us all and living through us all.

Unity is a supernatural thing...the Holy Spirit joins our hearts!

Unity of Gathering

Ekklesia (Greek) – to be called out from...and gathered for a purpose. We’ve been called by God to this place.

If we stripped everything away what would we need to survive as a Christian? What is the ‘irreducible minimum’?

The Bible, prayer, giving - all very important in our Christian walk.

Our gathering together is the most important thing. When we connect for the purposes of Christ. There is power when we gather – not when we are on our own.

There is more healing, more strength, and more revelation when we gather. That’s why even in countries where Christians are persecuted or have been persecuted through history they have always made every effort to meet.

3 people in the Old Testament who left the places where God had called them to be - Abraham, Lot and Naomi. They faced trouble and hardship until they eventually found themselves back in the place where they should have been.

Stay in your place! Christ’s body – the Church. Connect and flourish!

Thursday, February 02, 2006

Song Transposing

For all you worship leaders/song writers/musicians...

Here's a useful tool for transposing those songs....you know the ones that are either too high or too low!